red dress long sleeve lace Sheer Scalloped-Lace Long-Sleeve Mini in Wine - S 43% nylon Hand wash AFRM Jenima Long Sleeve Lace

Designed for a relaxed fit

For instance, Lee tells us that when it says "preferred" on the dress code (such as Black Tie Preferred), it means, "I really, really want you to dress this way." That's much different than "optional," which means, "Some people, including the bride and groom, are going to dress like this but you don't have to." Finally, our expert tells us, "'suggested' is a polite way of saying 'You should wear it.'" For all other hints on what to wear according to the couple's dress code, click on for Lee's advice and outfits to inspire your look

The custom fit was perfect- I did no further alterations to the dress (besides adding a bustle for the train I requested)

And you can easily make your own using ingredients you probably already have in your kitchen